You know the pair of earrings you thought you will like at a glimpse, and when you went back you could not find it and thought that it was sold to someone else. Immediately you regretted not coming back for it earlier cos now you are convinced that you really wanted it. But,when the retailer located it and brought it to you, you realised that at closer inspection, you do not like it at all. It really does not suit you in the least. . . Walk away, he is just like that pair of earrings. Leave it and move on…you have reached that conclusion long ago. That is no need to re-visit it.